Mayo Clinic estimates that about 10-20% of pregnancies end in miscarriage but then admits that the number may actually be higher since some women miscarry before they even know about their pregnancy. A textbook in Italy suggests that the percentage of miscarriages may be closer to 60%. And if we add in the loss associated with stillbirth, the death of a child early on, and other kinds of infant deaths, the numbers are truly heartbreaking. The numbers are truly staggering, but the church has often not provided a way to mourn the loss and to find hope in Jesus. We have funerals for those who die, but, most importantly, we pray for those who suffer such a loss. There is no coffin. There is no service. There is often no closure. One pastor said: “Too long, too often, we have let mothers and gathers grieve alone. We want to provide such hope to the people of God who mourn such loss.

At Mount Lebanon, on Wednesday, November 1, we will hold a “Service of Remembrance” for those who seek hope in God at the loss of children, both unborn and born. The service will be at 6:30 pm, with light refreshments to follow for those who desire to share additional time and fellowship. We pray that this service will be a blessing to you.

We know that it may be difficult for parents with young children to come to such a service on a weekday evening, so we will provide a $30 gift to help parents get a babysitter. You will be able to request help by registering for the event or by contacting the church office. You only need to register if you would like help to secure a babysitter.